Language and communication

Explore related activities, guides and research. Use an age collection when you want a starting point for your child.

Communication in play includes describing, listening, asking, choosing and telling a story. Children can contribute through speech, gesture, pictures, movement or their usual communication aid. Reading and long spoken answers are not prerequisites for participation.

Give communication a real purpose

A pretend delivery needs a destination. A shared construction needs a plan. A story needs someone to choose what happens next. These situations give players a reason to exchange information instead of answering a string of adult questions.

Leave time for a response. A comment about what is happening can invite participation just as well as a question. Follow the child’s contribution and check its meaning when you are unsure.

Adjust the explanation

Show the action while giving a short instruction. Use familiar words, keep choices visible and offer a demonstration if the rule is unclear. Avoid treating an unfamiliar word or a quiet response as failure at the whole game. Parents can use a language that makes the interaction comfortable.

Describe opportunities honestly

These activities offer occasions to communicate. They are not language assessments, speech therapy or evidence of a guaranteed vocabulary gain.

Read the guided-play guide, then choose Shape Delivery for practical exchanges or Story Changes Direction for shared storytelling.

Background research

Read the study context and limitations. These sources are not tests of our products.

Use age as a starting filter, then adjust the rules, materials and support to the child in front of you.
Describes individual communication supports, caregiver involvement and consistent access.
No game-type advantage on cooperative, prosocial or antisocial behaviour; cooperative games were enjoyed more.
Illustration of a child and parent sorting shape cards with one or two dots.
A shared goal is a start. Useful cooperation also needs understandable roles, room to contribute and a way to handle disagreement.
Use a small pretend story to explore feelings, hear different ideas and practice a manageable way to play together.
How to give a game a learning purpose while leaving children room to choose, experiment and change direction.
Illustration of a young child and parent matching large paper shapes to homes.
Pictures help when children understand what they mean. Build a clearer activity with demonstrations, accessible choices and flexible responses.
Illustration of a young child and parent matching large paper shapes to homes.
Ages 3–
4
A little delivery mission with clear pictures, shared turns and a choice of gentle challenges. No reading is required, and the child can take a turn leading the grown-up.
Both formats improved a related spatial-assembly measure versus usual provision.
Illustration of a young child and parent matching large paper shapes to homes.
Turn everyday arrangements into opportunities to compare, rotate, describe and check, with clear limits on what research proves.
Illustration of a child and parent sorting shape cards with one or two dots.
Ages 5–
6
One set of illustrated cards, a fresh challenge each round. Take turns leading an unhurried table game with four optional ways to play and helpful picture cues.
Understand what memory games ask children to do, what transfer means, and how to choose an enjoyable level of challenge.